Discovering a country extends far beyond exploring its landscapes or historical sites. It also means embracing the customs and traditions of local people to ensure a serene and respectful visit. Like any other nation, Russie has its own distinct culture, and the way Russians live differs somewhat from ours. Here are essential rules of etiquette to know before traveling to Russie.

Dressing Well

During your stay in Russie, you'll likely notice that people on the streets are always impeccably dressed. Indeed, before stepping outside, Russians take time to prepare themselves and care for their appearance, especially in cities. A Russian woman may wear makeup and high heels just to buy bread at the corner shop. Even in winter, they venture out in heels. Pay attention to your attire, particularly when invited to the home of Russian friends.

The "Non-Smile"

Europeans and especially Americans smile at everyone constantly, simply as a matter of politeness. In Russie, however, people don't smile at strangers. At first, this may make you uncomfortable, but you'll soon understand that Russians only smile when they genuinely like you. Their rare smiles are sincere rather than mere polite gestures. Interestingly, Russians who are reserved with strangers become loyal friends whom you can truly count on.

The "How Are You?"

In European countries, particularly France, this question is automatic and part of daily ritual. Yet in Russie, one doesn't ask how someone is unless truly interested in them. Moreover, the question "how are you?" expects a substantive and sincere answer. So, like smiling, if someone shows interest in you here, it's genuinely meant.

Russian Hospitality

First, understand that hospitality holds tremendous importance in Russian tradition. This people love welcoming guests. That's why Russians don't wait for special occasions—birthdays, holidays, etc.—to visit a friend or neighbor. They adore coming over for tea, which they call "забежать на чашечку кофе," or "dropping by for a cup of coffee."

Russians visit without formal invitations. Simply give your hosts a few hours' notice and they'll be delighted to welcome you. In Russie, it's impolite to leave guests without food. When invited for "tea," expect to be served salads, desserts, and more. Quite a spread!

Generally, a true Russian is thrilled to host a guest at home. Some, living in small apartments, may even be upset at missing the chance to welcome visitors. However, they'll happily accompany you during your sightseeing tours.

For Special Occasions

Russians love organizing themed parties. These are especially popular among young people. Other Russians enjoy inviting friends for beer, "на пиво."

In Russie, people typically celebrate events like the beginning of vacation or public holidays. It's an opportunity to visit friends or family. Typically, women prepare enormous meals. Tables overflow with appetizers, salads, desserts, alongside soup and main courses served individually.

Attitudes to Adopt in Russie

Before visiting friends, bring gifts to delight them. Homemade cakes or dishes are highly appreciated. For women, a bouquet of flowers suffices, but the number must be odd. Flowers in even numbers are presented at funerals and should absolutely be avoided. Sweets are always recommended for children.

Pay attention to the threshold of a door in Russie. This place connects to superstition. Historically, ancestors' ashes were placed at doorway thresholds. Thus, to avoid disturbing them, you must step over the threshold—never sit on it, shake hands there, or exchange objects.

Also note that hugs are reserved for close ones.

Once inside, don't forget to remove your shoes and put on slippers. Hosts typically provide these at the entrance.

Inside a home, you should avoid whistling. This is considered very rude as Russians believe whistling in a house prevents money from entering and attracts malevolent spirits.

Avoid discussing politics, criticizing the Russian government, or the country in general. Prefer neutral conversations.

If you see a candle left burning in the home, don't be surprised—it's a religious symbol. Don't use it to light a cigarette...

At Table!

In some traditional families, seating at table holds great significance. Wait for the head of the family to indicate your place. His wife sits to his right. Often, he seats his favorite guest to his left. You may encounter this during business lunches as well.

By tradition, Russians don't serve all dishes simultaneously but bring them one after another. This serving style was borrowed by the French before spreading throughout Europe. You must wait until the third course to toast.

Customarily, it's the guest who raises their glass first and speaks. Don't forget to toast to the mistress of the house and all hosts to thank them. Toasting in Russie is truly an art, so prepare in advance.

Vodka Tradition

During the meal, you'll likely be served a glass of vodka or other alcoholic beverages. If possible, don't refuse. You should drink your vodka in one shot ("cul sec") and refrain from toasting when drinking to the memory of the deceased.